Author name: Kyra

Personal Growth, Yoga

Why in the world would I slow down if it’s going to HURT?

We are generally very busy. Lots of reasons why. Some we can do something about, some we can’t.

Do some of us NOT SLOW DOWN because in the quiet spaces, we hurt? Thoughts come up that SUCK. They are painful, stressful, frustrating to us.

We have money issues. We have problems with our kids that we might be ignoring. We carry around hurts from past relationships, packed away in a box in the basement (or is it?). Maybe there is a big fat elephant sitting on the marriage nobody wants to talk about it.

Being really BUSY helps to not hear and feel those thoughts. Or we …

Watch too much TV, those countless episodes of Walking Dead
EAT DRINK SMOKE
Exercise too much

You turn the TV off, you HEAR (or FEEL) the silence … then a thought comes up.  Maybe the fretting starts, the teeth grinding, the tears?  You go walk the dog and end up crying.

It’s so STINKING uncomfortable, painful and down right UNPLEASANT.

So why do it?

To feel the pain. To heal the heart.
To learn the lesson. To move on. To be refined by the fire.

Strength and courage. We all have it. Either within ourselves or a phone call away. Learning to be just fine even when we aren’t, that’s a big lesson. It’s worth it though.

STRENGTH & PEACE
To learn to FLY
To soar higher
Diet, Eating, Education, Personal Growth

Yin Yang – the balance of life Part1

yin-yangThe principle of Yin and Yang is a fundamental concept in Chinese philosophy and culture in general dating from the third century BCE or even earlier. This principle is that all things exist as inseparable and contradictory opposites, for example female-male, dark-light and old-young. The two opposites attract and complement each other and, as their symbol illustrates, each side has at its core an element of the other (represented by the small dots). Neither pole is superior to the other and, as an increase in one brings a corresponding decrease in the other, a correct balance between the two poles must be reached in order to achieve harmony.

Yin is feminine, black, dark, north, water (transformation), passive, moon (weakness), earth, cold, old, even numbers, valleys, poor, soft, and provides spirit to all things. Yin reaches it’s height of influence with the winter solstice. Yin may also be represented by the tiger and the color orange.

Yang is masculine, white, light, south, fire (creativity), active, sun (strength), heaven, warm, young, odd numbers, mountains, rich, hard, and provides form to all things. Yang reaches it’s height of influence with the summer solstice. Yang may also be represented by the dragon and the color blue.

Yin and yang describe how we can be connected to our universe. For example, the experience of climbing a mountain in the sun could be described as yang compared to the feelings we experience while lying in the shade.

We can use yin and yang to describe our relationships with anything, including food, exercise, chi and the weather. Where it becomes interesting is that we can also describe our current state in terms of yin and yang. So I could say, “I feel really yin today.” If I was not happy in that state, I could simply connect more deeply with those things I have identified with as helping me feel more yang, and change my current condition to being less yin.

Ultimately, yin and yang are a wonderful way to generate greater self- awareness and make interesting connections between our own conditions and all our possible interactions with the world we live in. Yin and yang allow us to connect ourselves to everything around us so that we can quickly decide what we need to do to bring ourselves back to a more balanced state when feeling any discomfort.

A very primitive use of the Chinese characters for yin and yang is claimed to date back to the fourteenth century BC. It is thought that initially the character for yin described the night and yang the day. It seems that Chinese philosophers recognized that humans where influenced by three powerful cycles, those of the day, moon and year. It also is apparent that our response to these cycles has certain similarities. So we might notice similarities with the night, new moon and winter whilst sensing a similar response to the day, full moon and summer. Yin then represents the night, new moon, winter part of the cycle and yang the day, full moon and summer.

Yin and yang can be interpreted in different ways. For much of its history yin would describe the way we feel during the night and in winter compared to the yang feelings we might experience in the summer and during the day. In Chinese medicine, the word “cooling” is associated with yin and “warming” with yang. So a food that feels warming would be more yang than a food that feels cooling.

The basic idea is using two words to describe the effect of outside influences on us, and to cultivate the awareness of how we can help change our health through a change of those influences. Yin and yang is used in feng shui,macrobioticsChinese astrology, the I Ching, traditional Chinese medicine, acupuncture, Chinese herbal medicine, shiatsu, tai chi, qi gong, and Chinese philosophy.

One traditional Chinese interpretation is that yang is experienced on the sunny side of the mountain and yin on the shady side. Other ways we can experience natural environmental yin and yang is to see how we feel during a hot, dry, day in the summer, when there is a greater presence of yang energy compared to a cold, damp, frosty night in the winter. We could also compare the way we feel during the full moon to the new moon. During the full moon some of us become slightly more yang, and this corresponds with a three to five percent increase in car accidents, crime, and admissions to emergency rooms.

Using this definition of yin and yang, I would feel more energetic, expressive, outgoing, social, alert, warm, active, and motivated when I sense I am more yang. When I describe myself as more yin, I feel more withdrawn, introspective, meditative, cool, relaxed, calm, peaceful, objective, clear-minded, and insightful. I would suggest you make your own list of what feels like yin or yang to you, drawing on your experience of night and day, winter and summer, and shade and sun.

We are always more yin or yang and most of the time, and this is healthy; however, sometimes we may find we experience problems from being too yin or yang. Once we have identified whether we are too yang or yin, we can simply expose ourselves to more of the opposite energy and reduce the influences we have too much of. For example, if I felt too hot and active and this was contributing to a headache, as though the sun and heat was too strong for me, I could eat all the foods I know cool me down. For me, this would be raw cucumber, grated daikon, fresh fruits, lemon water, apple cider vinegar, plain yogurt, and salads. As a result, I would feel more yin; in the past, this has resulted in my headache receding.

Next blog … practical ways to compliment yin or yang.

Athlete, Biking, Diet, Personal Growth, Prevention, Running, Swimming, Triathlon

6 Simple Exercises for a Strong Core

One way to develop an eye-catching mid-section, strengthen your core and back regions is to incorporate abdominal exercises that work all areas. These exercises develop your core and tighten the tummy, which is designed as a stand-alone workout or add to your circuit training workouts. I also love to do these exercises as part of my 3 and 11-day detox programs alternating with yoga or gentle walk in order to flush out the toxins and keep me moving.

jack-knifeThe first exercise is what I refer to as the Jack Knife sit-up. Lay on your back. Hands and feet meet in the center. Slowly extend arms and legs away from center of body. Don’t touch floor with arms or feet. Hold and bring back to center. Do these for 1 minute. Try to do 25-30 reps. If you are a beginner, bend the knees and bring them up to midline and back down.

 
 

core-abdominal-and-lower-back-exercises-1Leg extension with a workout bar is to use a bar and hold the bar in front of you and just lower the legs while keeping the hands and workout bar in place overhead at waist level. Drop legs 6” from floor, hold then bring back up to the bar. If you don’t have a bar, place hands under lower back and lower legs to floor, approximately 6” from the floor and back up to mid-line. Do each exercise for 1 minute/rest for 1 minute.

core-abdominal-and-lower-back-exercises-2Now take the same bar and alternate it from side to side in order to work the oblique.

If you are a beginner, stop when you need to rest and then continue to complete as many reps as you can in 1 minute.

 

 

 

bike12Another great abdominal exercise you can do if you don’t have a bar is to simply do the Classic Scissor Crunch. Lay on floor, hands on head not behind head, so you can avoid pulling the neck and alternate legs to elbow. Right elbow to left knee and reverse, count that as 1 rep. What I refer to as a double count. Do for 1 minute. 25-30 reps.

plank1The next exercise is great for your whole core, The Classic Plank. When done with the scissor crunch, flip over on your mat, place hands under shoulders, lift lower body in straight line, flat back and hold for 1 minute.

situpsThe last one is the Classic Crunch. Lay down on your mat, knees bent, hands on head so you don’t pull the neck, lift ½ way and back down, repeat. Complete as many as you can in 1 minute.

Complete all exercises, each one for 1 minute/1 minute rest between exercises. When you are done with all exercises, you will have completed one (1) circuit. Rest after each circuit for 2-4 minutes. Repeat circuit 2 more times up to 5. Complete 2-3 times a week and you on your way to an eye-catching mid-section, while strengthening your core and lower back region.

Athlete, Biking, Personal Growth, Running, Swimming, Triathlon

Is there “healthy triathlon competition” in “healthy marriage”? A little race report.

It’s official.  He is faster than me! At least at the mini sprint in a pool.

I’ve been doing triathlon for two years. My husband started a couple of months ago.

I thought I had more time to be faster than him.  NOPE.

I guess the lesson is some of us are FAST. And some of us are NOT.

Another lesson? I might be a bit too competitive. Because here are my thoughts …

As you can see on the times, the only place I’m faster is in transition.  So NO.  I’m not going to purchase tri shorts so he’s faster.  I’m not going to purchase him yanks, so he’s faster.  I’m not going to race in the same swim lane with him because I might be tempted to kick him, slow him down a bit.

HA!

He is officially on his own!

My race report. I’d like to throw out that in my heat was…a fast rabbit, a gazelle and two other really fast go getters.

SWIM: I didn’t have much anxiety in the pool. Funny how pool swimming makes me more anxious than open water swimming. I think perhaps because I LOVE nature. I wasn’t any faster than usual. That sort of irritated me. But heck, I have swam 4 times since my Ironman. hahaha, silly lesson on unrealistic expectations.

BIKE: I need stronger legs. Though I can certainly go faster on my bike. Cybex bikes sux.

RUN: Good run. Nice fast pace for me, 8:40 ish. Pain free. No throw up. It’s no fun running all by yourself because everyone else is already done. HA!

BOOM! Next race, getting sub 50 if it kills me.

Personal Growth, Uncategorized, Yoga

Lose yourself or harness your true power

What do you do when life really throws one at you?

We could ….  crumbled to a heap.  Melt.

We could ….  get all mad and angry.

We could …. become cold and empty.

We could ….. Get all high and mighty.

All of these and more.

Those things that we are really attached to can be hard to apply the cliques.   Your child gets really sick.  You get laid off when it’s really bad timing.  You’re husband leaves you for another.  These things can really pack a punch.

Make you breathless.  Make your heart bleed tears.

Can we live the joy as much as we live the pain?
Can we love the pain as much as the joy?

To learn to be close to the intense pain and still be able to breathe is a skill.  To not run and hide, to breathe through it.

To cry out for help, to let that person share your pain, carry your burden for a bit.

To travel through the most intense part, knowing that it ebbs and flows.

To be open to hearing the wisdom when it does ebb.  To see the way forward.

To be brave enough.  Strong enough to go forward.

To know that you are strong enough, good enough to reach peace again.

LIVE OUT LOUD
LIVE FULLY
HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE

…isn’t just about the roses. It’s about the thorns too. We must learn, experience, reach, love, let go, reach for help, listen and breathe.

Athlete, Personal Growth, Yoga

Living my faith and training for a marathon

Heart Health Nugget

Your boss has thrown a curve ball at you. It’s really hit home, just might impact your time with your family, your todo list, your life rhythm. Perhaps you start worrying about it.

Random thoughts clog up your mind. Affect your sleep, day to day concentration, maybe that’s all you talk about with your husband. Maybe you can do something about it, maybe you can’t, maybe you should take action, maybe you should be patient.

Having a clear mind and heart, listening to your internal wisdom is hard to do when we are worrying, obsessing … not living by faith. Which is a muscle we need to develop and strength. Here is a practice that can help develop that strength, so when you really need it, it works well. Automatically.

When those random (or not so random) thoughts of worry travel thought your thoughts, simple turn your internal gaze to:

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  • repeating a short fav scripture. With reverence.
  • focus ALL your attention on three breaths, with each exhale being a bit longer, out your mouth, releasing stress. With reverence.
  • put your hand to your heart and feel your heart beat for 10 seconds. With reverence.
  • gaze at a tree for 10 seconds, seeing the roots that provide a strong foundation. With reverence.

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Practice this with the little things. Build strength of faith. That all will be well, your answers will come as they should. The help you need will be there!

LOVE LOVE LOVE

Uncategorized

Healthy Fall Foods that Ground You

Your attention span is non-existent, your mind is wandering relentlessly, and you can’t quite feel the earth beneath your feet. The summer is nearly over and for many it’s time to buckle down, get focused and start fresh for fall. Yet, that “spacey” summer feeling might be lingering, making it impossible to concentrate. Ready to come back to reality and regain focus? Now is a great time to add some grounding fall foods to your shopping list.

The idea of grounding foods stems from the Chinese medicine theories of the energetics of food. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that each food has a unique energy that affects your body a certain way. This goes beyond the calories, macronutrients and micronutrients of food. We’re talking about the energetic influence of food on the quality of your life—your mood, your awareness, your energy levels, your health and beyond.  For example, a cow that was treated brutally throughout it’s life, slaughtered, butchered and served to you as a hamburger in a fast-food joint might give your body a predominantly negative kind of energy that could leave you feeling imbalanced and even depressed. Alternatively, that green smoothie that you lovingly prepared with fresh, organic ingredients from the local farmers market offers a pure and beautiful energy to your body that leaves you feeling great, both physically and emotionally. Makes sense, right?

Luckily, those of us who have a tendency to be kind of spacey can use the energetics of food to our advantage. The lazy days of summer are passing and fall means back to business. It’s time to look to some fall foods for their wonderful grounding qualities. As the seasons shift, it’s important to shift your diet as well. These grounding foods will help restore balance to your life and land your feet firmly on the ground.

Roots veggies: beets, carrots, turnips, radishes, ginger, and garlic. All of these veggies have roots that reach down into the ground. The roots of a plant are its anchor; the foundation of life. Adding these foods into your diet can help you become more rooted and grounded in your life as well. Try out some roasted root veggies— they’re tasty and great for shaking off that spacey feeling.

Sweet potatoes and yams: These tasty root veggies get a special mention because they’re not only grounding, they can also curb your sweet tooth, which will really help you shake that spacey feeling. Avoiding processed sugary treats is a great way to support your body with balanced and focus. As the season change, these dense sweet veggies will also help your body adjust to cooler temps.

Quality proteins: Eggs, nuts, and meats offer a grounding energy to the body. They can also help stabilize blood sugar.  Look for organic, hormone free, free-range, etc. Eating nuts that are loaded with pesticides isn’t going to do you much good. Remember that quality foods offer quality energy to your body.

Biking, Triathlon

For those that bike…and have extra friends

abscess

Have you ever been plagued by very uncomfortable and unsightly skin abscesses?

Last year I struggled with it under my chin. In a bad way. From the bike helmet strap. It was REALLY embarrassing.

This year during Ironman training, aka, lots more miles…I developed a case in the bikini area that really SUCKED. BAD. I couldn’t get my mind to shut up doing the long rides because I was in decent and relentless pain the entire time! The tri shorts/seams had a bit to do with it but the main culprit was…

Not just ingrown hairs but a skin condition called Hidradentitis suppurativa. Which is something I have struggled with my entire life, just to a lesser degree as compared to during intense training. Lots of people have it. Read here.

I’m sooooo RELIEVED to be done with this issue.  Here is what I did.

Purchased a garlic supplement.
Garlic is highly antibacterial. But doesn’t kill our own good gut bugs and end up giving you…(you know). I bought Kyolic Aged Garlic Extract with Vit C, Astragalus, and mushrooms. Took a coupe of weeks to really knock it out. I eat really well and all, and noticed a difference. Nature’s medicine. Check it out on Amazon.
Exfoliated
I exfoliated with Yes to Tomatoes Daily Clarifying Cleanser. Yes to Tomatoes rocks on the face too!
Bought different bike shorts.
The material in the groin is wide, no seams in the crease of the groin.
Started switching shorts
I began to switch shorts from swim to bike (and bike to run) for practices and plan to do the same during the race. You can get the same Yes to Tomatoes face wipes. Very refreshing.
Patience
This skin condition can be a systemic thing, so be patient.  Add more garlic and onions into your diet.  Both very good for you and antibacterial in it’s properties.  Fixing this “surface” issue will also have secret benefits for your body, as the immune issue won’t only affect the skin but other unseen things as well.

Side note:  this approach will work with teenagers with acne, etc etc etc.

Side note 2:  Also.  I have been giving my dog (boxer: pron to cancer/tumors) this Garlic supplement as well and noticed a difference already in her skin!

Happy riding!

Athlete, Diet, Eating

Slightly chubby Irongirl

I’ve always struggled with weight.

I’ve weighed 210 pounds. That’s size 16.

I’m around a lot of skinny people.

I JUDGE MYSELF. HIGHLY CRITICAL.

I just might have an “I’m enough” issue deep down. Expressing itself as a body self esteem issue.

Seriously?

Two years ago I couldn’t run 1 mile without stopping 3 times and taking 17 minutes. I’m in the best shape of my life.

I’m the healthiest I’ve ever been. I’m gonna be an Ironman soon. That little belief is a BIG FAT LIAR.

I’M ENOUGH. All 156 pounds of me.
(maybe more than enough.  maybe super forkin’ fabulous!)

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